Rejection sucks.
It sucks so much for so many guys that the fear of rejection alone destroys their dating life.
But the thing is, rejection is just part of the game.
Sometimes we get rejected due to external factors that we can’t control. That’s why we shouldn’t take any rejection personally while focusing on what we can control.
And in this article, we’ll go over all these major factors so you’ll know exactly how to handle rejections.
Let’s get started.
1. She’s Not Single
“Sorry, I have a boyfriend” aka the infamous BF bomb.
If you are a regular gamer, you might have come across this line a gazillion times, and you probably might be thinking that girls are using this as an excuse to politely say “No”.
But believe it or not, most of the time they are actually telling the truth!
As shown in this study conducted in the U.S. few years ago, among women aged 18-29, only 32% were single. This number drastically goes down to 19% for women who were above 30.
This means that 70-80% of the girls you approach would likely drop the BF bomb!
So next time when you get bombed 10 times in a row, don’t take anything personal. Just realize that it’s not you, it’s them.
That’s why volume is the key in game because most girls you approach will be taken.
Now this is the external factor we can’t control. So embrace it, and keep gaming.
That being said, just because there’s a goalie doesn’t mean you can’t score. Now if that’s what you aim to do, then check out this video on our channel.
2. You Missed It
Most guys take too long when it comes to escalating and moving things forward with women.
They want to wait for a perfect moment to make a move. So they’d keep on waiting and waiting… until girls get frustrated and turned off as they walk away, wondering if you’ve got a pair.
Sorry to pop your bubble, but the perfect moment simply doesn’t exist.
As the Old School PUA Shibboleth summed this up elegantly:
“You hesitate, you masturbate.”
Simply because the longer you wait, delay, or fail to escalate when the opportunity presents itself, the less likely she is to be receptive when you finally do escalate.
Whether you’re trying to get her number, bounce her to an instant date, or even going for a same day lay, you have to keep escalating on a high point.
Now what do I mean by “high point”? Well, basically think of it as an IOI or Indicator of Interest, like when the girl’s smiling or giggling, blushing, asking you questions or even being receptive to you verbally and/or physically.
But don’t worry, you’ll know exactly what I mean once you’ve had enough volume in game as mentioned above.
Just remember that most girls would likely forgive you for escalating too fast. But they will not forgive you for missing the window of opportunity.
3. Man Up
You might have heard that a woman literally knows within the first few seconds of meeting a man whether or not she’s going to sleep with him.
While that may or may not be true, we can’t deny the fact that first impressions are crucial.
In order to make a good first impression, it’s important to focus on your appearance, what you say to her, and especially how you come across.
Some girls like to refer it as the BDE, which is essentially the masculine vibe.
Now you can say the best pickup lines at the most perfect time while looking your absolute best, BUT if you don’t come across as that guy, she is not going to get sexually attracted to you.
Remember that it’s not what you say, but HOW you say it.
For example:
– Having the Superman Pose
– Maintain a strong and steady eye contact
– Speak in Downtalk, and slow down
– Be grounded and unreactive. Daily meditation helps
That’s pretty much it. Obviously it takes time and practice to develop this masculine vibe, and if you want to get results much sooner rather than later, then let’s talk.
There you have it, top 3 reasons why girls reject guys.
To sum it up, don’t worry about the external factors we can’t control such as the inevitable BF bombs.
Instead, focus on the factors we can actually control by escalating on high points and developing the masculine vibe which is becoming more and more rare nowadays.
Keep gaming, players.