Game can be hard, especially for beginners.
And this is why our mission at Gameasy is to help guys game the easy way.
That being said, you definitely don’t want to make the game any harder than it already is.
If you follow the tips outlined below, you’d have a much smoother ride for the start of your pickup journey.
Now hop in, and buckle up.
1. Rejected? Chill.
One of the main reasons why newbies don’t approach is because of the fear of rejection.
It’s not because they don’t know what to say or what to do, but because of the fear of embarrassment from a woman rejecting them in public in front of everyone to see.
Their fragile ego got bruised. And then they’d give up after a couple rejections and go home.
Well I have some good news for you…
Nobody gives a flying f*ck.
The reality is that people are going to stare at you for maybe a second and then go back to scrolling through instagram or tiktok on their phones.
So drop your ego, and learn to embrace rejections. Over time, you’ll toughen up emotionally like a Top G.
Most guys have high ego and low self-esteem, and that’s exactly why most guys don’t approach.
Repeated rejections will help you develop a grounded, unreactive mindset. And this mindset alone will take you much further in life.
Plus, there’s always something funny about each and every one of the rejections.
The game is called the game for a reason.
2. She’s Talking? Next.
This applies to women who are talking on the phone, talking to a group of friends, or talking to a cashier/clerk.
If she’s talking to someone that means she is pre-occupied with something and focusing her energy on someone/something else at the moment.
You going in and approaching her while she is talking is only going to make her feel annoyed.
If you want to approach, then either wait till she is done talking, or better yet, just move along. There’s plenty more fish in the sea.
Don’t get me wrong, as you get more advanced, you can definitely pull it off with girls who are talking.
But for now, just stick with easier approaches as discussed in the next tip.
3. She’s Stationary? Go.
For a pickup newbie, approaching a girl who is stationary is going to be a lot more productive than approaching a girl who is moving.
This is because to stop a girl who is moving, it takes skill and you need to be able to project a stronger frame. Otherwise, she’ll just pretend like she never saw you, and keep walking.
You won’t have to deal with that if you’re approaching a girl who is stationary.
You can just walk up to her, and use a situational opener to get the ball rolling, which is a lot easier than stopping a girl.
However, if she says she is waiting for her boyfriend, then just move on. As a newbie, focus on girls who are single and ready to mingle.
That being said, doesn’t mean it can’t be done.
4. She Loves Me
When you approach a girl you don’t know, approach her like you’re already seeing her.
No, this doesn’t mean you can just go in for the kiss right away. Please use common sense.
I’m referring to the overall mindset as in imagining that you’ve approached her before, gone on a couple of dates, and already been seeing her for a while.
So you’d naturally have closer proximity when you approach, along with a warm and familiar energy.
And guess what? If you feel comfortable with the girl, she’d in turn feel comfortable with you.
Essentially, assume attraction.
When you run game with a mindset like this, you’ll come to realize your approach anxiety would gradually fade away for the better.
If you want to further understand why you must assume attraction with women, I suggest you give this article a read.
5. Show Intent Immediately
Opener doesn’t matter, as long as you convey intent right away.
There are 3 main reasons why you should flirt immediately:
1. Establish a man to woman frame from the get go.
2. Make things a lot more fun, and you won’t bore her.
3. Get feedback immediately, which is going to save both of your time. If she’s into you then she’ll stay, and if not she’ll let you know right away.
Don’t wait for the perfect moment.
Just go for it.
6. First Impressions Count
Most guys are overly concerned about how they look and what they say.
Once you step outside the house, you have to completely forget about how you look. How you look is how you look, it’s not going to magically change.
Instead, you need to shift focus onto how you make her feel and how you say what you say. Check out point #3 in this article for more info.
Your body language, vocal tonality, facial expressions are things you need to work on to make a good first impression.
Now with our Bootcamp, you’ll be able to cut down years of your learning curve and master these key elements in only a matter of months.
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Keep in mind that these tips are just tips. Not rules, meaning nothing is set in stone.
As you get better in game, you are free to make or break your own rules.
And remember, Gameasy.