The truth is, there are certain behaviors a lot of men do that drive girls away.
Well, certain antisocial behaviors, to be precise.
This is critical to understand because some behavioral cues would signal high/low social status.
In this article, we’ll go over 5 of these antisocial behaviors that you should completely avoid…. unless of course, you don’t want to get laid.
Now without any further ado, let’s get started.
1. Lonely, I’m Mr. Lonely
Look, there’s nothing wrong with being alone.
However, if you’re alone and are actively scanning the environment looking for an opportunity to not be lonely, you’ll come off as lower value.
Cool people don’t scan the room looking for validation from other people.
It’s one thing to be enjoying yourself and having fun while being alone, but if you seem sad or depressed, remember that no one wants to be a part of that.
Be grounded instead. Daily meditation helps.
2. Being a Party Pooper
Everybody hates party poopers. Please don’t be one.
Specifically, when someone latches onto others in social situations, it can ruin the fun and freedom of everyone else around them.
For example, talking about loneliness, complaining all the time, being overly negative and talking for the sake of talking are all indicators of low social proof and a social nuisance.
Of course, nobody wants to be dragging someone around who’s not having fun.
If you always depend on others for entertainment, it may seem like you don’t have a life of your own, and that is going to make women repel you.
The real fun should come from within.
3. Being a Whale Hunter
Now I’m sure you’ve heard of pre-selection; the idea that women are attracted to men that are attractive to other women.
Meaning, they are “pre-selected” by other women, such as Dan Bilzerian or Hugh Hefner.
This however only applies if the women who have chosen him are objectively attractive.
If a dude is pulling up to a club with a bunch of land whales, the exact opposite is true.
Now he’s pre-unselected.
That being said, outside of the gaming venue, anything goes – you do you.
But inside the club, don’t hit on all the fat ugly women unless that’s what you are truly attracted to.
Women are going to judge you hard and want to have nothing to do with you if you are with undesirable companions.
That’s how the game goes.
4. Getting Overtly Rejected
Obviously rejection is just part of the game and there is really no way to avoid it.
BUT, if you are getting rejected overtly over and over again, it can signal to others that you are a person with lower social status.
What’s even worse is that you take rejections personally and look all depressed or triggered as soon as you get rejected.
Instead, just smile or even laugh about it as there’s always something funny about each and every one of the rejections.
And guess what? When people see you leaving the interaction smiling with your chin up, they probably couldn’t even tell that you just got rejected anyway.
Conversely, if they see you get accepted, the exact opposite is going to happen…
They are going to be more attracted since you have demonstrated through your actions that other women want you too.
Sounds like a one way ticket to the Game Zone, if you ask me.
5. Doing Laps Around
Every gamer is guilty of this at some point in their pickup journey.
Yep, me included…
Rather than going up to a girl and talking to her directly, most guys would hover around her.
After a good couple of minutes, they’d finally muster the courage to do a half-assed approach, only to get rejected or ignored.
There is absolutely no point in hovering, and nothing to be gained from it.
It makes you come across as someone who is unsure about themselves and that sends off creepy vibes.
Instead, follow the 3 second rule.
You see a cute girl?
3, 2, 1, Go.
Now you might be wondering how to get positive social proof.
It’s simple. Just do the exact opposite:
– Instead of being alone and miserable, talk to everyone around and have fun.
– Instead of doing laps around the girl, go straight up to her and say hi.
– Don’t hang around undesirable women, go for the ones you find attractive.
– Don’t be a party pooper, instead be the life of the party.
– And finally, even if you get rejected, don’t make it look obvious, end it on a positive note and move on to the next.
Now I understand it’s way easier said than done.
But look, if my clients could transform themselves with High Status Behaviors that got them results, so can you.
Just sign up for a free consultation now so you can start your own transformation right away.
And remember, Gameasy.